I encourage everyone to go see the movie “Brittany runs a marathon”. It’s a good movie to understand how until you change your thinking that your life will stay the same. This movie isn’t just about a you lady running a race. She’s trying to figure out how to get her life together and the race is one of the goals she’s using as a measurement.
Stop blaming other people for things not going right and look deep within yourself. Wake up and decide you are going to be different. You just have to take one small step and that’s enough.
The path is hard, when you are close something will challenge you and make you want to stop. You have to fight on and keep fighting until you think you don’t have anything else to give. If you start to cry, wipe your tears and start fighting some more.
If you give up you will end up in the place where you already are. You know how that feels – you don’t like it. So you keep on fighting, because right now there’s no going back. You want to know what it feels like to achieve your desire.
If you are unhappy you have to consider maybe you are doing the wrong things. Are you doing things you want to do or something that someone expects you to do? That will determine your path going forward. It will help you to think about what you really want from life. Until you can determine who you really are and your true interests you’ll always be unhappy.
You can only receive things that were meant for you. You can never take something from another person. An example is if you take money from someone that you weren’t meant to have it from the money escapes you just as fast as you received it. That’s why you can’t focus on the lottery or trying to sue someone for financial gains. This is also where karma comes into play. The world or universe has to balance itself out. So when you take something forcefully from someone it has to do the same to you. This is why I encourage you to do good deeds and give. If you give someone will give something back to you – karma.
For you to experience your best self there can’t be chaos. To believe that it is normal to always be in a rush is not healthy. You must tame the chaos and find balance. Balance is a form of peace. You must be willing to accept that you are unable to do everything in your life for others. Usually when chaos is present you are trying to make someone else happy or meet someone else’s expectations.
It is said that you have dominion over the earth. If that is the case your life shouldn’t be as hard as it is. You have to realize that you are doing something incorrectly and it’s time reflect and readjust.
You feel like you want to run away from painful situations. Don’t run, that pain is trying to teach you something. Dont miss the lessons that are hidden inside the painful event. If you miss the lesson it will come back to you again until you figure it out. It’s best to learn the lesson the first time so your life will move forward.
If you want to start moving your life in a positive direction stop blaming others. Its easy to blame your problems on others because it pushes the failure away from yourself.
You also have to quit feeling sorry for yourself. Feeling sorry for yourself provides you an excuse to not try.
This is when you have to truly practice faith. Know that the answer is coming. If you believe that you will hear something and back it up with a prayer to receive wisdom something will happen.
Job unhappiness is a sign that you are starting to out grow your current situation. When you experience this it is very important to pray about it and listen to the voice deep within your spirit for the answer. It may take days or weeks before you get a response back from your spirit. Stay the course and continue to pray daily.