You aren’t the only one who is going through something tough. I know it feels like you are alone but you aren’t. It’s a temporary situation that is guiding you to where you need to be. It could be that you are meant to become a new person to deal with the situation. The only way to become the person is to be introduced to the situation you are in.
Don’t focus on the bad thing that is currently happening. Do what you need to do and cry, scream or yell but continue to see what good things you have going for yourself.
In the bible there are many situations where someone found themselves in tough times. Each time they didn’t rely on themselves or even their friends or family. They called out to God because he was first in their life. He was the only one that could truly pull them out of their situation.
“People who do what is right may have many problems, but the Lord will solve them all”. PSALM 34:19 NCV
You aren’t alone even though it feels like it, in addition it feels like you are walking a path and everyone is judging you. When you feel like everyone is watching you it’s because you have their attention; which is the platform God needs to everyone how he’s helping you. Use your spiritual gifts to show that God has your back.
“Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the Lord.” PSALM 31:24 KJV
Situations are in your life to teach you, to get you to learn a lesson. You must be open to what life is trying to teach you so you can move forward. If you don’t accept what life is showing you it will keep bringing the situation back to you.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking a situation is an accident or coincident. In addition, accept the situation right then as a learning moment. Furthermore, know that whatever is happening to you it’s there to help you. It may not feel like help right now, but you’ll look back at some point and see how the situation pushed you to be better.
Bad Situations can easily take your happiness if you let them. Don’t get bogged down and let complaining about situations take over your life. Complaining builds negative momentum; as well as steers your life to attract more trouble. Have you ever noticed when you are complaining it’s like one thing bad after another keeps happening?
Pray to receive wisdom to understand what you need to do. Practice prayer daily until you clearly understand how to find relief. If things start to get worse stay steady and don’t lose faith. Continue praying about the situation and believing that you will get the answer in due time. You don’t want to stop if you do you’ll have to start over from the beginning which will take you twice as much time to find relief.
Approval dependent upon what others think will lead to your unhappiness. It will put you on a road that leads into a direction that you don’t want to go; away from your dreams. You are giving your power away to someone else; which you should never do.
The only approval that you need is between you and God. He’s given you a talent and vision, it doesn’t matter if anyone else understands it. The uncomfortable feeling that you get when others don’t understand will test you. In addition there will be times that people close to you will distance themselves. Don’t get frustrated or angry thinking negative thoughts towards these individuals.
People will try their best to protect you from something they don’t understand. They want to make logical sense out of things and if they can’t they assume it is wrong. You may have a vision that doesn’t fit into logic because it has not come into existence. It’s your job to bring the vision into its place of existence.
Regardless of what happens you must push to reach the vision you were given. When you feel that you are struggling or unclear of what to do next is when you should pray. Be clear on what you are needing during the prayer as well as making sure you are open to receive the answer.
In conclusion, you and your spirit are one, whenever you are seeking someone else’s approval you have lost your dependency on the spirit. Without the spirit you cannot reach the promised land or vision. If you reach this place, re-adjust your thoughts quickly. Get your thoughts into a place where they are positive towards the things that you are trying bring into existence.
Develop Your Spiritual Gifts
Today, is the day for you to stand up and use everything that you have to grow. You are only a victim because you see yourself that way. Reverse what you think and believe that you will win. Don’t worry about how long it will take you to win just know that you are going to win. You can’t fail if you believe the spiritual gifts you have inside are enough.
Don’t rush through the day, see the good in the things around you. Look at the color change of the leaves. Notice the wind blowing the trees or the ripples of the water. Can you see the clouds so slightly moving? These things will relax you if you are having a tough moment.
Did you know that wat you believe you will pass down to your children? Your children will then pass the same thing dow to their children. If you are thinking negativity and defeat that what you are teaching your children. You have to change your thinking right now. It’s the only way to change your family’s future.
When you feel frustration repeatedly it’s trying to get your attention. It’s like a consistent poke on your side. It’s there to make you uncomfortable. When you are uncomfortable you will consider doing something different. Doing things differently will take you somewhere you’ve never been.
You have to believe in what you can’t see. This will help you stay positive and not be discouraged or become depressed. Don’t try to put rational behind the thing you are believing in. All you need to know is that good things can happen without your control or you knowing how it will happen.
Each day you should be trying to be better than the day before. If you weren’t kind yesterday use today to make up for that. If you were thinking negative thoughts yesterday try to see how positive you can be. The better you can be the easier it will be to cope with life going forward.
Still experiencing the the same tough situation? You have to figure out what you continue to do that leads up to the situation. Once you can identity what you are doing stop doing it. Pray for the strength to stop doing it. If you can change one thing only it’s enough to change your life.