No one wants to experience pain in their life. It’s a very uncomfortable time that you want to quickly go away. Pain is the prod that moves you to the next stage of your life. If you are running from the pain, your life is probably stagnant. A stagnant life holds happiness only for a short amount of time.
Pain shows itself in many forms such as death, divorce, job loss, illness, financial, car problems, home loss and etc. During this time the pressure in your life is intense. The pressure makes you evolve to be someone other than who you are. As you evolve you will be wiser, in addition, things will get simpler.